that I don't realize how unlikeable I can be.
that the way some groups deal with other people's grief is self-serving and unconscionable.
that black men that grow up with their fathers learn what it takes to be a good husband and father, even if they don't do it.
that black women learn from their mothers what it takes to be a good wife and mother but don't abide by it, because they don't value the dudes they're with.
that black women in the music industry could learn a thing or two from Anita Baker. Pretty much the same hairstyle since '85 and still rockin' the set. I'm pretty sure I didn't know what anything but her face looked like until I saw her in person this weekend. It's not the look, it's the talent.
that if I don't fix my fucked up attitude, I'll be stuck in this hellhole forever.
if I was more delusional, I could be a happier person.
that I'll never trust anybody more than 48%. People are fucking dishonest at heart. They'll lie to you on their deathbed. Actually, I think people are so self-delusional they couldn't find the truth if they had a map and a GPS unit guiding them.
that I've gotta be boring. I'm bored with everybody else, so I must be emitting the same shit to other folks.
the best writing I do (off-blog, that is) is when I'm pissed. I need to bring the heat to finish this damn book.
that Petey Greene was the truth. I loved "Talk To Me". Don Cheadle deserves that statue next spring, yo.
that combing one's hair is overrated.